this may sound unpromising but i dont want to feel sorry for him and plummet for him because he has have cancer, He is 33 and was affraid to explain to me he got adjectives upset and explained that he had v doomed to failure scars.. he told me, he is within the clear and that he still has to dance for check ups.. i have not see his scars and i sopose i am a bit curious. oodles of my family member have have cancer so i know what he has be through and if i am honest the scars wont be a problem.. my head just surrounded by a pickle..

Answer:
Ask yourself how you would feel more or less him if he had not told you just about the cancer, would you still like him satisfactory to sleep with him? Or is it the curiosity in the order of the scarring etc?
This poor guy has have enough to accord with already, and requests someone to be on his side for once - whatever the adjectives may bring...could you be that person?
Good luck!

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freshly give him time,
I don`t know he's finding it very rock-hard to come to terms beside the scaring,i know this sounds mordant,but instead of being curious in the order of his scares,be near as a friend,and when he feels set to show you then he will.

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