I REALLY obligation your assist! Im so confused!?
so i FINALLY meet a great guy that i resembling alot. Hes smart, caring, enormously attractive and is very goal-orinented.
BUT..
Last hours of darkness he told me that his ex-wife gave him an STD. He also told me that he have it cleared up and it is no longer there. I know STDs cant be cured forever, but I dont want to be SHALLOW and stop discussion to him just because he revealed that he have an STD. I am scared to hold sex or to get intamit near him but im not sure what i should do. Ive never had to do business with anything resembling this before.
What should i do?
Answers:
It really adjectives depends on what std it is. At least he is anyone honest with you and describing you about it upfront.
Go cooperate to your doctor and take him next to you don't take any more risk than you enjoy and can afford to take
What open-handed of STD is it? You don't have to break it sour with him because of his STD but you involve as much information on it as possible before sleeping beside him.
Ask him exactly what he had and if he get testy with you something like having to answer question tell him it concerns your vigour and so,of course, you hold a right to ask questions.
Using a condom doesn't prevent the ratification of some STDs so don't assume you'll be safe ignore the situation and just making him use condoms (i.e. herpes can be passed even next to condom use).
Figure out what he has and after repost with more information.
Sorry you are have to deal beside that!
Don't deal beside it! The guy is still having sex next to his ex. So he says. He for sure is have unprotected sex. You have no opening of knowing where he get the STD or if he got treatment. But he did tolerate you know about it; so don't enjoy sex with him.